There is no such thing as a narcissist, a bore, bastard, gaslighter, tyrant, a bully... 

Oh, they exist in the world. Or so it seems. But, really, what they actually are is names we have adopted to describe the demons of our own denial of universal love in our own framework of perception. We deny who we are when we see monsters outside ourselves. That doesn't mean that people abuse our boundaries, that we are not victims of abuse. All of that goes on. And will continue to go on in the world. That's the terrain of insecurity. 

What it does mean is this: wisdom demands inner change. 

When we have done the inner work and forgiven ourselves for our own triggered reflections that we see in others those demons will cease to bother you. Such demons are like metal to magnets. When we change, when we act from love and not fear then the demons flee. They only find a home where there is victimhood, self-loathing, self-pity, ignorance and gloom. When they depart from your projected reality, they have done their job. Be grateful. Their job was to mirror to you what is true by referencing all that was born of illusions.

Inner security comes from self-knowledge and it cannot be impacted by the fruits of insecurity. Intelligence operates in a field which is unintelligent. The outer story of our lives is a reflection of the inner values we hold dear. Once you have mastered looking with eyes lit from within, you won't see your shadow, for you are facing the light. 

"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things."

Henry David Thoreau

For most of us, life is not a movement through ease. Minds lit from within discover that quality of ease toward the end of their journey. But such individuals are generally rare. We recognize that most people go through extreme challenges and life can be very often difficult. 

"The spiritual journey is not a career or a success story. It is a series of small humiliations of the false self that become more and more profound. " 

Carl Jung

These critical questions about therapy that should be explored:

What speaks in me? Is it fear - condemnation, insecurity, attack thoughts,....what speaks?
At what part of the process of waking up is the client?
Focus only on the light in them.
Does the healer apply ego empathy or enlightened empathy?
Focus only on the light in them.
Is the healer wounded? Are they conscious of those blocks in their perception? Many are not.

Sutranovum offers therapy.

The primary problems with therapy are: 

• many trained therapists are asleep to what wisdom is. They are full of their knowing but have no idea how their mind is projecting the chaos and madness in their minds onto self and others. They see an unfair world, an insane world, a world of beauty and terror, contrasts and possibility. They do not see a forgiven world. A forgiven world is one that has been liberated of the stain of our projections of fear. So there is no guarantee that the therapists understand transpersonal psychology. Remember:
  Whatever is happening in life is happening "for" you, not "to" you.  Egotistic psychotherapists embolden the victim-victimizer mindstate.
  Focus only on the light in them. 

• Meaning that they have not woken up to the wisdom of  the line in the Book of Job: (many of the great myths of the world, when read as messages to the unconscious support the process of awakening to wisdom):
  You are doing this to yourself.
  Focus only on the light within.  

• Nor the wisdom of the Course in Miracles. that says:
  
  I am not a victim of the world I see.
  Focus only on the light within. See with the eyes of light.
  
  

• They are lost in ego empathy which generates a lot of insanity. Many therapists do more harm than they do good. This is why we are very conscious about this arena of our focus. We support its growth very carefully. Still, all things work together for good.

• The problem with the clients is that they don't know how to listen properly to their own impulses; the outside world overwhelms them. So a lot of therapy becomes narcissistic compassion and the rhetoric of ideology and self-importance and self-loathing. True therapy questions all of this and so allows healing to happen.
  Focus only on the light. 

Nathan offers consultations to help you turn your mind and heart around. He offers coaching around the themes associated with the psychotherapy implicated in the teachings of the metaphysical wisdom behind the Course in Miracles, the Golden Key by Emmet Fox and the teachings of Ramana Maharshi and the schools of transpersonal psychotherapy. His work draws upon the insights of the yoga sutras, the enneagram, the principles explored in the Course in Miracles, his study of Robert A Johnson's work and his training in Carl Roger’s approach to psychotherapy, as well as his extensive experience of the varied cultures of the planet.